You can’t joke around with weddings. While it is clear that two people get married, if they want to live together, not all couples can pass the test of time. If our grandparents stayed together until their death, times have changed, and now more and more couples divorce and start over again. But divorce is not to be considered. It’s a hundred times better to start a wedding knowing from the beginning that you and your partner are right and you will be able to stay together as much as possible. But how can you be sure of something so important?
Most wedding proposals are unsuccessful. At first, are you attracted to your partner and emotionally, not just physically? Do they feel tied to a deeper level? Do not forget that beauty is not eternal, and time leaves the mark on everyone. It is very important that after some physical changes it will happen to you placet each other so much. Physical appearance should never compensate for their problems. So, are you sure you want to spend the rest of my life with this person? Can you be loyal? Do you have total confidence in him? Will you be able to accept small oddities that occur with age? This is not a very simple decision. It’s a serious thing and you should be sure that both can be done.
Think and unpleasant and unexpected things that can happen. What would you do if your boyfriend was seriously injured and would have been disfigured or could not move only in a wheelchair? No one wants to think about it, but we can not prevent accidents. Will you be able to stay with him yet? Can you take care of every day? Have you to make hundreds of compromises you feel? Do you also have the same dreams as your partner? Do you want the same things in terms of lifestyle, family, marriage, children, career, personal development? I do not think it’s ok if he wants after years to move to Sweden while you want to stay here with the family. It’s important to want the same things out of life. About your family what do you think? Are you okay with them? As I am? Unfortunately, you will not only marry him but with all his family. Would you be willing to help them financially, if they need it? Will you attend all your family visits? Finally, how will it handle the money? Will I put together, just put the money together, everyone with their money will be? Money is one of the most common reasons for divorce in the world, so we have to come to an agreement in this regard. Think carefully about all these things in order to make the right decision. Take the time to get married just because you love your partner. Unfortunately, love is not enough, and for others, it takes to make the last marriage.